still forever wondering why it’s considered to be a negative thing on this site to voice criticism for shows, movies, and even actors. i’m sorry but if someone irl says something racist or misogynistic or what have you in front of me, i sure as shit am going to say something, like look can you not do that? i’m not just going to stand there and be like welp that made me feel disgusting and uncomfortable but i’m not going to point it out so they can learn from it but instead just sit here like a potato
once i make a few more hats, i’ll probably put them on my etsy just to get rid of them. i like making them but i’m not going to be using them all. i also have other stuff planned to put on there, like gloves and dolls!
my mom was just telling me about my older brother saying that he’s having it rough and that he didn’t know being a single parent could be this hard what with having to be careful about who’s around the kids and going to appointments and trying to do his own thing by going to college as well etc. and like, i feel for him because i know what that’s like. but she’s all my poor baby what a hardship he’s going through blah blah blah. um excuse. i’ve been doing this for thirteen years. there are plenty of women that deal with being a single parent. he is not a special snowflake because he is a man get out my face
today was nice, i actually got to sit at home and relax, ooh wow what a thing. i crocheted and watched inuyasha and went on a bike ride because it was nice outside and then played poker with my kids and made some great red beans and rice with fried chicken and put together one of the kids’ dressers that has been sitting in a box since we moved, and now i’m doing some paper work that i need to turn in tomorrow.
sometimes i feel like i’m too hard on straight white people but then i remember that i am TERRIFIED for my physical well-being to go a few blocks down from where i live where everyone is republican and white so
i wish there were less straight people involved in the discussion about queer representation. like, that one post disagreeing with dean/cas being canon=not actual queer representation, while it was interesting to read and i agreed and disagreed with certain parts, and i definitely don’t want the conversation to STOP, i feel like straight people take that as, well that one queer person said such-and-such so that i means i can ignore what other queer people have said and make my voice heard above them. if that makes sense. it just reminds me of, well my black friend said it was okay to make black jokes around him because they don’t bug him so i’m going to say them because they didn’t offend one black person.
someone tell me to quit starting new projects!!!! I have like four blankets, five hats, two cross stitching patterns, a doily, and a cas doll all started and i’m already thinking about new things to make!!!!!
holy balls, my boss is so shady. she was shorting us regular paying hours, which we just got sorted, and now we find out that she’s been shorting us miles. we were told by her that we get reimbursed up to 500 miles per year to drive our client around and now the department of disability guy told us that it’s supposed to be 500 miles per month. uuunfortunately, this company is probably the least shady group of people that we’ve had to deal with as far as care for my sister.